If you would like to see more pictures and read a more detailed description of Ava's journey, you can visit her carepage at www.carepages.com. They will ask you to register free of charge. The registration is simply to have the necessary informaton to add you to the guestbook of every carepage you view. It will then ask you for a carepage name. Ava's is Delicatebird. |
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| Obituary- Lawrence Eagle Tribune |
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| IN MEMORY OF OUR DAUGHTER AVA ELIZABETH MEDEIROS 7-14-04 TO 11-20-04 |
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| Below is the update from Ava's Carepage on the day she became a Butterfly in God's Hands November 20th, 2004 |
She Has Landed In God’s Hand Ava is a butterfly in God’s hand now. Yesterday she had really been struggling to maintain her oxygen and heart rate. At approximately 2:30 am this morning, she took flight. Over the past couple of days she really had shown signs that her heart was getting tired. Friday morning her heart dropped into the 60’s for about 5 minutes. She was becoming swollen because her heart wasn’t strong enough to distribute the fluids to where they needed to be. So we met with the medical staff, and we decided that we needed to discontinue her nutrition, lipids, and antibiotics with a strong recommendation from the medical staff to do so. Even though we discontinued these treatments, it was her breathing that was primarily the cause of her passing away. She needed constant oxygen to maintain her level, and even then she still had difficulty. Nana, Auntie Bre, Grammy, Grampy, Mckenzie, Mel & I were there to help comfort and guide her through. The most important thing was that she was comfortable throughout, and really wasn’t aware of what was going on. As the intervals decreased between each dip, Mel & I comforted Ava alone. Ava fought for hours, and truly is the greatest fighter I have ever known. We mourned, we slept, and held each other tight. It is the hardest thing we have and hopefully will ever have to go through. She has been a major source of inspiration, and a teacher of love. She has put many into a reality check, including myself. She has shown us that it is what you have, and not what you don’t that is important. She has made me a better father, son, brother, friend, and husband in her short time with us. I can’t even imagine what else she would have taught me. She taught us that loving someone, sometimes means taking a difficult route to please them. This disease was too much to overcome, and her quality life was not very good, but to all that knew her she was a Miracle. Every parent that has known of her troubles, goes home and hugs their kids a little tighter and is much more thankful for everything they have, along with being a little less envious of what they don’ t. Our family has met people that care for other baby Avas every single day, and we are ever so grateful. They need to keep in mind how many babies that they help every day, rather than how many cannot be cured. All of you helped us through this most difficult time of our lives, and I truly mean it when I say that we could not have done it without you. We love you as much as you have loved our daughter, keeping in mind that she loves you too. We would like to thank everyone for supporting us through Ava’s journey. Ava’s carepage has been so therapeutic and has given us so much added strength and support. We were willing to share, and you were willing to accept. That is a true relationship. We are planning the arrangements for the wake at Harte Funeral Parlor and the funeral at St Patrick’s Church on South Broadway in Lawrence. We’re trying to schedule it for Tuesday & Wednesday. Once we have the final arrangements, we will post them on the Carepage. Ava has spread her wings, flown, and landed in the palm of God’s hands. She is not only our Miracle of Flight, but also a Miracle of leaving her presence everywhere she lands. Butterflies not only have fragile wings, but also exuberate incredible beauty in a short life span. EB is Everlasting Butterfly. TODAY IS THE FIRST DAY OF HER LIFE WITH PEACE. THANK YOU FOR ALL YOUR LOVE AND SUPPORT |